Of course, Sept. 11th is on everyone's mind this week. Our world was turned upside down that day.

I'll never forget my daughter, Eliza's quote the next day as I took her to school. It was a beautiful fall day here in Western Pa. and she looked at the blue sky, her school and everything around us and said, "Everything is the same, but nothing is the same."

We were relatively untouched in our lives - we didn't lose a loved one or friend, our routine stayed the same. But our hearts ached for those not so fortunate.

This weekend, let's all pause in our lives. Maybe you want to visit the Flight 93 Memorial, maybe you can visit New York and pay your respects, maybe you will just honor a moment of silence for everyone who lost their lives that day, for those left behind.

For all of our shortcomings, all of our faults, everything we lack, we are still a country that stands proud. Let's remember that.

And give your loved ones an extra hug this weekend.

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